Between a blog commenter and a monkey … (2)
Thursday, June 14th, 2007 | 1:01 pm @ SK
This has gone awry, one of the repercussion that I fear the most hast just kicked in.
My favorite blogger bro Syed Azidi Syed Abdul Aziz a.k.a Sheih resigned as All-Blogs (AB) Pro Term Committee, citing that his relationship with blog commenter Monsterball has caused so much tension that might disrupt the unity that he dreamed within the blogosphere as the primary factor.
Then after things have gone out of proportions, we, the young and capable go and search for all the personal information and published it on the net. So, the whole world can read how my father owned his credit card companies without even can service the interest for twenty years. So the whole world can see that how much money we the family members owed the private hospitals because we wanted all of us to feel comfortable in the hospital etc etc.
Is this what we as bloggers are fighting for. Well, maybe the answer will come to BigDog, Simon, A Voice, Shar and me when we are in our seventies.
Till then, I would rather feel more comfortable to walk with my beloved Bro Rocky and Bro Jeff while waiting to walk with SS GOH to court when the Finance Company starts suing him courtesy of us.
As much as I do not agree with his resignation from AB, I respect the decision, a tough one, I reckon. It’s OK to take a rest, but please come back.
Meanwhile, as I read through the book The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin S. Sharma, there is a quote that I’d like to share.
There are no mistakes in life, only lessons. There is no such thing as a negative experience, only opportunities to grow, learn and advance along the road of selfmastery. From struggle comes strength. Even pain can be a wonderful teacher.
Nasi sudah menjadi bubur. There is no way to restart the old chapter. There are no mistakes in life, only lessons while I’m hoping my bro Sheih exile stint is not going to be long.
June 14th, 2007 at 1:29 pm
favoUrite!
June 14th, 2007 at 1:59 pm
Out-ting someone who doesn’t want to be out-ted is in bad taste. Very, very bad taste. Sure, monsterball might be irritating, but out-ting monsterball disgusts me more.
That being said, the blogosphere is not an utopia. To imagine it could be one is delusional at best; it is, after all, a gathering of competing interests.
June 14th, 2007 at 5:12 pm
there’s a mole among us folks……..and he/she is succeeding in causing chaos in the blogosphere……
June 20th, 2007 at 10:24 pm
Since you quoted a remark that has my nic, let me put it straight. This was posted on Shieh blog:
Asssalamualaikum Sheih
Bila saya capai umor tujuh puloh, Insya Allah, saya tidak ada penyesalan berkenaan kawan anda yang berumor itu.
Seorang yang tiada adab dan budi bahasa, adalah sesuatu yang asing di Asia dan terutama di Tanah Melayu. Orang Melayu utamakan budi bahasa tetapi toleransi dan kesabarannya ada batasnya.
Saya ada beberapa perkara yang sudah saya bentangkan dengan ikhlas di laman Shar. Saya mohon jawapan anda disana.
Wassalam
Terima kasih.
The quesions on Shar101’s blog are below:
Sheih
I understand that you are not a person who is comfortable with certain level of openness. I think you have to take the bull by the horn now. YOur reputation and honour is on the line. All is out in the open.
Anduka in simon wee’s blog said these observations of Monsterball.
“For an old man at his age, he could have:
1) more manners
2) less blunt in his saying
3) don’t call people pimp, bastard, whore etc
4) don’t label a particular race
5) dont try to teach people about their religion as if he knows better
6) dont single out a religion teaching as better than others
there’s more but my point is as an old experienced person can should or must be better. To me he is asking to be treated in this manner.
Sorry for the long comments just cannot tahan people still have reason to defend him.”
I made sms and complaint direct and private to you for some usual antics of Monsterball levelled at me and embeliish with some lies. I seek of you privately to correct it and tone down Monsterball. .
But in turn you chose to bombard me in Susan Loone’s blog. This is the one that you add also some embelishment that anything to do with TDM and Sazmi, I would jump up.
Let me clarify that I am not quite concern with the Lojing issue. Its peanuts and done, irreversible. I have known for long from PAS ground people that even PAS is no angel in this issue.
Coming back to the Susan Loone’s blog’s incident, why did you choose side and bombard me, instead of “memperbaiki sikap” Monsterball?
Just to refresh, it all started when Susan Loone had that crazy idea for All Blog to Ijok which had some strabnge intention that I do not agree. The exchanges and engagement was honest and proper, if not mired by your best old friend’s interuption to level ridicule and insults.
Just to tell you, ever since that incident, he has constantly been rubbishing me unincited in Susan Loone’s blog, although I am hardly a browser of Susan’s Altantuya-ingly boring blog.
Now, everybody knows and accept these traits of Monsterball listed by Anduka, why do you take side and defend his persistently bad behaviour?
I do not want an apology but answers.
Till today June 20th, Sheih has not responded but still on his "wayang" mode to deflect rather faced the truth like using IP as an issue.
His is using his typical ways of dramatising to seek for sympathy for unity, without acknowledgment of Monsterball’s bad behaviour and creating a bogey of TDM supporters. That call is anti thesis to Freedom of Speech and MOnsterball bias.
Most of bloggers are not aware that quite a bit of his stories are lies. Worst, he has known to betray trust and confidentiality and "stab" on his own friends and sympathisers.
June 21st, 2007 at 8:49 am
Dear Voice, Let me say this. It takes two to tango. While you keep telling me to keep your identity and not to reveal your name and picture, how can you talk about openes and support other people revealing other people ID jus becau you cannot stand the person.
I owned a blog and I knew the pattern. Of cause you will not agree with me, but remember the when you used the nick Kiai…. to belasah Monsterball. Remember all the things you wrote in attacked to him? Remember when you sms after our first meeting saying you want to shove underwear into MB’s throat for condenming Mahathir in front of Marina?
Al least he did it in front of Marina.
Of cause, all my answer above is full of wayang and emotional.
And by the way, Yes I share the same table with Harris Ibrahim. And yes I agreed with what Harris talked during that evening. Don’t you remember that you and your friend too were at the same table?
June 21st, 2007 at 8:51 am
I decided to post the above comment in respect of the blog owner, Bro SK whom email me and request me to respond. If not I rather you my blog to do my wayang.